Possibilities are everywhere, but turning them into realities starts with you. The words you choose—“I can,” “I will”—shape your mindset, your actions, and ultimately your success. Confidence isn’t about waiting for the perfect moment; it’s built by acting with purpose, even in uncertainty.

Watch the company you keep, and the crowd you bring.” I never truly understood these words until a recent trip to Bali, where my wife’s way of seeing the world—filled with wonder and joy—transformed how I experienced everything around me, even in her absence.

Moving through life with curiosity and a desire to explore has always been my way of living. Rather than being confined to one place or one identity, I’ve chosen to embrace change, seeking new experiences and opportunities. While fear and uncertainty often surround the idea of moving—questions like "Will I belong?" or "Will I regret it?"—I believe the greatest regret would be not trying at all.

Mindful language is central to my coaching approach because our words shape our reality. By shifting from negative self-talk to positive affirmations, we transform our mindset and unlock our potential, empowering you to navigate challenges with renewed confidence and resilience.

Our language shapes our reality; shifting from “I can’t” to “I am, I can, I will” can transform your mindset and unlock your potential. By choosing words that affirm your beliefs, you empower yourself to overcome doubts and take control of your path toward success.

Lost in Living (LiL) has been thriving, guiding more people to conquer their mindset and embrace the “Next Play Mentality”—a mindset that focuses on learning from setbacks and taking the next step with renewed confidence. Whether on the court or in life, it’s about staying present, embracing resilience, and using every lesson to come back stronger.